She refused to participate in the documentary and is now pregnant after in vitro fertilization, due in September. Diane Schuler, 36who died in the wrong-way crash on the Taconic Parkwayrecently seemed under pressure, like work and family were getting to her, said the pal, Sheila, who asked that her last name be withheld. The car contained her own two kids and three nieces. I read Jackie Hance's beautifully written memoire of her heartbreaking and unimaginable loss of her three little girls before I read this. Share this memorial using social media sites or email. Warren Hance told his sister, Diane Schuler, to pull over and wait for him to pick them up. Diane Schuler was a 36-year-old woman from New York. The Long Island mom driving the wrong-way minivan in the Taconic State Parkway tragedy called her brother two hours before the crash to say she was sick and disoriented, cops said Monday. Your new password must contain one or more uppercase and lowercase letters, and one or more numbers or special characters. "His wife was drunk and high at the time of the accident that killed seven innocent people. A 1.75-liter bottle of Absolut was found in Schulers wrecked Ford Windstar after the fiery July 26 smash-up, which killed her, her 2-year-old daughter, her three young nieces and three Yonkers men in the SUV she hit. I had built up a tolerance to a rather high blood alcohol content and without it, I was much less functional. They piled into her brother Warren's red 2004 Ford Windstar minivan, while her husband Daniel followed behind in a truck with the family dog. . Eventually, she collided with an SUV, killing the four children she had in the car with her, the three adults in the other car, and herself. But owner Ann Scott insisted that such revelers are immediately thrown off the premises. UNIDENTIFIED FEMALE: Long Island mother Diane Schuler was stoned and drunk when she plowed into the Bastardis` SUV, going the wrong way on the Taconic Parkway. A system error has occurred. Even if we did know it wouldn't bring any of the victims back but for the Bastardis at least the not knowing is a terrible affliction. The sadness of course is that no-one will ever know exactly what happened in the days leading up to and following the crash. Eight people were killed when a minivan, being driven by 36-year-old Diane Schuler, traveled 1.7 miles (2.7 km) in the wrong direction on the . A graveside service will follow the visitation, in the Knowelhurst Cemetery, Stony Creek where Eileen will be laid to rest next to her beloved parents. The collision occurred after the troubled West Babylon resident drove south for 1.7 miles in the northbound lanes of the Taconic Parkway. "She lost touch with reality," he speculated. Today marks the two year anniversary of the tragedy, and now, an HBO documentary, "There's Something Wrong With Aunt Diane," asks if Diane Schuler's obsessive perfectionism may have contributed to the crash. They also jump to many conclusions that can't be proved as long as Daniel Schuler keeps lying and changing his story. Friends may call on Eileens family from 12-2 pm, Thursday, October 10, 2013 at Alexander-Baker Funeral Home, 3809 Main Street, Warrensburg. As for the marijuana found in her system, Tetrahydrocannabinol or THC stays in the system for many days and weeks. Jackie Hance, Diane Schuler's sister-in-law and the mother of three of the children killed in the accident, published the novel "I'll See You Again" in 2013. Eileen leaves behind three sons, Warren, John and David; two brothers, Joseph and Michael; her sister, Kathleen Doerrie; and grandchildren, Byran Schuler, and Melanie, Kasey, and Willa Hance. Her van was later spotted by several motorists driving erratically along Route 17 and I-87. This book deals with the Bastardi family. Around 9:30 a.m. Diane, along with her 5-year-old son Bryan, her 2-year-old daughter Erin, and her three nieces (8-year-old Emma, Emma, 7-year-old Alyson, and 5-year-old Kate) left the camp. Schuler herself was killed, along . Blowing horns, flashing lights, and waving arms did nothing to deter her. She takes Ambien and Vicodin. My brother was always there for me. Schuler was canonized by her family, who challenged the autopsy results, and vilified by those who called her a reckless drunk and even a "scumbag.". "People said she seemed so normal," Bernstein said. News of Schulers alcohol and drug abuse is a crushing blow, said her family, including her brother, Warren Hance, and his wife, Jackie, whose three young daughters died in the crash. However, there were several incidents where I would be functioning altogether normally, or what I considered normal for me at that time, and out-of-the-blue I would become totally disoriented and start doing things that made no sense at all. Schuler, 36, was driving her brother's Ford minivan home to West Babylon, L.I., after a camping trip in upstate Sullivan County when she somehow entered the Taconic State Parkway on the wrong ramp. In the smoldering vehicle and twisted metal scattered along the highway, lay the bodies of eight people. Its a fat soluble drug and can remain in a person's fat cells for weeks. The Diane Schuler Case. Diane Schuler calls Jackie Hance. I would recommend it though because some of the smaller details in the whole tragedy missed in the press are sketched out here. I bought this in order to fill in some gaps in the story of this tragedy and the book does do that. There was an error deleting this problem. "She was a phenomenal mom, she never let the kids out of her sight," he said. As manager of this memorial you can add or update the memorial using the Edit button below. Thanks for your help! I didn't like the parts of the book where they discuss as a family the little boy who survived in an almost insulting and irreverent way. Try again. I read this strictly to get more info on this tragic case. "The family needs your support. John O'Farrell later told the Daily News. Officials tell New York press that Diane Schuler's blood alcohol was .19, nearly twice the legal limit.. Robert Guzzo, whose wife lost relatives in the crash, tells press today: You can always change this later in your Account settings. A caller to WABC/Channel 7 said the campground at Hunters Lake where Schuler and her family regularly stayed is a known boozing area, where wild parties are the norm. She did not do anything that will make her lose control when driving. According to Barbara, Diane Schuler suffered from diabetes although additional sources cite Schuler as having had gestational diabetes, a temporary condition related to a prior pregnancy, rather than a chronic condition. Small children, because they are so tied to . This is the story of the infamous Taconic Parkway crash but if you're reading this review then you already knew that. For the last couple of months, she didnt appear to be a happy woman.. We will review the memorials and decide if they should be merged. We would never knowingly allow our daughters to travel with someone who might jeopardize their safety. Family and friends are coming together online to create a special keepsake. I know this family wants justice. The Unsolved UK Podcast Diane Schuler/Taconic Parkway, Unsolved 13th Apr 2019 7 Minutes. Three men in the SUV she hit - Guy Bastardi, 49, Michael Bastardi, 81 . It might have been that she didnt even smoke pot that day. Oops, something didn't work. Garbus attempts to piece together the psychological puzzle of Schuler's state of mind before the 2009 accident, one of the worst in state history. Please enter your email and password to sign in. Reviewed in the United States on September 2, 2018. "At this point in our investigation, we don't know what caused the operator of the vehicle to go the wrong way on the Taconic State Parkway," said Capt. The Long Island mother who drove bombed out of her mind with a minivan full of kids triggering a head-on collision that killed 8 routinely bellied up to the bar and griped about her failing marriage and stressful job, a drinking buddy told The Post. Reviewed in the United Kingdom on October 11, 2014, Reviewed in the United Kingdom on January 29, 2014. In an interview scheduled to air Friday, the mother of three girls who were killed in a fatal New York wrong-way crash in 2009, tells NBC . He died, along with his father, Michael Bastardi, 81, and friend Daniel Longo, 74, all of Yonkers. . Please share a memory of Eileen to include in a keepsake book for family and friends. Diane Schuler was able to do so. . "Eventually, the fear, the shame and the humiliation come back.". Diane killed eight people that day including herself, her two-year-old daughter and her three nieces, all under the age of ten. She was high on marijuana and had the equivalent of 10 shots of booze in her stomach. My brother. Just like everyone else, this is news to us They were very friendly. Resend Activation Email. Quickly see who the memorial is for and when they lived and died and where they are buried. Hes facing possible lawsuits for the deaths of several people. She drove south in the left lane for 1.7 miles before smashing into the Chevy Trailblazer driven by Guy Bastardi, 49. Daniel Schuler has maintained a round-the-clock vigil at Bryans bedside since the crash. On July 26, 2009, 36-year-old Diane Schuler drove the wrong way down the Taconic State Parkway in New York. This relationship is not possible based on lifespan dates. Diane is seen on camera both at a McDonald's and a Sunoco with dark sunglasses on. You can customize the cemeteries you volunteer for by selecting or deselecting below. There has been much speculation that Diane planned to kill herself and the children that day. She didnt just wake up one morning with a drug problem and capable of drinking that much alcohol. Anolik spoke to reporters after a morning meeting with the Westchester County district attorney. He is of course shocked, horrified, and distraught upon the news and things go downhill from there. These kids are in the valley of heaven.". . Second, her husband had two different versions of where he was going that day: fishing and back home to Long Island. Only her son Bryan, then 5, survived. I was raised in an Italian-American family. "I'm still numbed," said neighbor Joseph O'Donald, 79. said "People suffer in silence.". This book deals with the Bastardi family. How much and when is anyone's guess. For several years before I got sober, I would awaken to three or four stiff (double alcohol at minimum) drinks before getting showered and dressed for work. Schuler, her daughter . for more information visit taconictragedy.us. But toxicology reports at the time revealed a blood-alcohol level of 0.19 -- the equivalent of 10 drinks -- and considerable levels of THC from smoking marijuana. Others in her life do not report seeing her drink alcohol to excess. My father taught me how important family is. "She was not someone who was mean. Diane Schuler, 36, was a dedicated wife to her husband, Danny, and a devoted mother to her children, Bryan and Erin. Diane was an accomplished working mother who balanced her responsibilities . The vehicles seemed to explode as they hit. Bruno Dekrem. Daniel Schuler filed a lawsuit Monday against the state in the New York Court of Claims, arguing that the highway was poorly designed [] . Just wishing it was not true does not change anything. Most experts ruled out suicide. However justice died with Diane. By submitting your email to receive this newsletter, you agree to our, HENRICK KAROLISZYN, Edgar Sandoval and SAMUEL GOLDSMITH, Do Not Sell/Share My Personal Information. Nor would Schuler's lawyer allow him to respond to questions regarding the scientific findings that his wife had high levels of THC in her system, the active ingredient in marijuana. The story of Diane Schuler is a sobering account of how dangerous the hidden life of functional addiction can be. There is a quote from Eileen. Nearly two years ago, Diane Schuler drove the wrong way on the Taconic Parkway in New York and crashed her minivan into an oncoming S.U.V. State Police also said Thursday that investigators went to Long Island for a pre-arranged interview with Schulers husband, Daniel; however, when they arrived they were not granted the interview and his attorney, Dominick Barbara could offer no useful information, the police said. The Schulers 5-year-old son, Bryan, who was the only survivor of the crash, has been moved out of the intensive-care unit at Westchester Medical Center, a source said. Strange theories are floated by Dom Barbara, Daniel's flamboyant and crooked lawyer. GREAT NEWS! The whole story smells rotten. Customer Reviews, including Product Star Ratings help customers to learn more about the product and decide whether it is the right product for them.Learn more how customers reviews work on Amazon. By JOHN VALENTI john.valenti@newsday.com July 25, 2011. Schuler worked for Cablevision as director of credit and collections; the company put out a memo to employees on Monday mourning her loss. I know this family wants justice. Failed to delete memorial. I also understand their anger and desire to find answers. Meanwhile, her husband, Daniel Schuler, was in another vehicle. So too is Hance, 41, and his wife, Jackie, 38, who lost their three daughters in the crash: Emma, 9, Alison, 7, and Kate, 5. Jackie wrote about her anger and rage at Diane for "murdering" her girls when the toxicoligy reports came out. There are no volunteers for this cemetery. Psychiatrist Bursztajn said Schuler was the worst kind of perfectionist who learned to self medicate. Please visit www.alexanderfh.net for online guest book, condolences, and directions. Finally, Daniel Schuler recently stated that his wife wasnt a drinker and suggested that perhaps diabetes or other health problems were to blame. Two hours before Diane Schuler drove the wrong way on an upstate parkway, killing herself and seven others, a motorist saw someone who looked and dressed like her doubled-over on the side of the . This is the story of the infamous Taconic Parkway crash but if you're reading this review then you already knew that. Because we have never known Diane to be anything but a responsible and caring mother and aunt, this toxicology report raises more questions than it provides answers for the accident., Jackies mom, Phyllis Spagnuolo, told The Post, The Hance family had no idea of what went on on the other side of the family. Update: Diane's mom Eileen died in Oct.2013. Does that make one way better or more right than the other? Search above to list available cemeteries. Absolutely not with Pot on board. He tells his aunt repeatedly, "Mommy's head hurt. A heartwrenching account of a son's search for answers into the accident that took the lives of his father and brother along with six others. The minivan plunged downhill and burst into flames as the SUV was pushed across two lanes and struck by another SUV. "She compensated in the present for what she lost in the past. Sources have come forward to say that Diane was unhappy in her marriage, felt trapped, and was aware her husband was having an affair (the babysitter at the press conference who later moved in)? Especially, when having children on board Diane will not take . "It's a puzzle," Bursztajn added. Her aunt is the only person who even mentions her. Schuler, her daughter and three nieces, and the three passengers in the oncoming SUV were killed. 0 cemeteries found in Westbury, Nassau County, New York, USA. After all this, she enters an exit the wrong way and drives for almost two miles narrowly missing countless other vehicles until that terrible final collision. Get updates on the coronavirus pandemic and other news as it happens with our free breaking news email alerts. I'm sorry but losing your three babies is very different than losing your elderly father yet they never allowed Jackie those feelings. Photos larger than 8Mb will be reduced. "She was not someone who gave up. "She had contacted her brother two hours before to say she wasn't feeling well" NY State police conference (7/27/09)"A drunk driver did not do this to your family," Daniel Schuler (9/1/09)** This book is based on the facts and information as presented to the family from the state police investigators, district attorney's office, private investigators, medical examiners, and other sources as listed. Witnesses said her driving was not erratic but rather she drove deliberately down the fast lane with determined eyes. My father taught me how important family is. Someone had to know, but that someone chose to say nothing, and now all these people are dead.. She cites the case of Leshanda Armstrong, a New York mother of four who drove her minivan into the frigid waters of the Hudson River in April, killing herself and three of her small children. I was curious to learn the story of the other victims in this senseless and mostly unexplained "accident" on a beautiful New York summer Sunday afternoon. A new report says Diane Schuler was drunk and had marijuana in her during that horrid Taconic Parkway crash that killed eight people. What happened next i. This story has been shared 170,718 times. Schuler, 36, was driving her brother's Ford minivan home to West Babylon, L.I., after a camping trip in upstate Sullivan County when she somehow entered the Taconic State Parkway on the wrong ramp. That makes it even more tragic.. Eight people were killed in the fatal accident. I think it does however give an insight into the less publicized victims of the tragedy; Guy and Michael Bastardi Sr. The tox levels prove she was drinking and smoking weed within an hour of the crash. I looked at the title and wondered if the Bastardi family were able to find answers not in Jackie's book. I highly recommend reading if you're interested in this case, it gives some amazing insight into the effects the accident had on the surviving family members. She was described as a protective mother's helper and the best mother's assistance ever. "She was very good at her job, and she was a take-charge person, too.". But who knows what really happens behind closed doors?. While many people questioned why the Bastardi's felt so much anger towards the other victims, the Hance's, after reading the book I understand why. Weve updated the security on the site. She warns that not all those who have upsets in life will end up like Schuler. This story has been shared 121,242 times. "All of us are very, very sad for the loss of the little girls, and our hearts go out to the family," she said. Please ensure you have given Find a Grave permission to access your location in your browser settings. You are only allowed to leave one flower per day for any given memorial. On 2nd anniversary of horrific crash, film explores mindset of Diane Schuler. Reviewed in the United States on November 28, 2016. What I found was a book that created conflicting emotions for me. It was a profound catastrophe.". One of the saddest news stories of the summer just got sadder the husband of Diane Schuler, whose wrong-way drunk-driving crash killed her and seven others, tells New York Magazine he still . The writing is very basic but gets the point across. I found the book impossible to put down, and although at present there does not seem to be an end to the story, I still found it very interesting and of course extremely sad. "We are all coming together in faith," said the Rev. Schuler entered the northbound lanes of the Taconic by way of the Pleasantville Road exit near Briarcliff Manor, Westchester County, about 1:30 p.m. Sunday, cops said. Verify and try again. Rather it is, one suspects much like the Bastardis themselves, straightforward, plain-speaking and matter of fact. And yet look what happened. Neither is it objective or balanced and why should it be? We have set your language to Anyone with a hangover and red weed eyes would understand this behaviour. Turn on desktop notifications for breaking stories about interest? But owner Ann Scott insisted that such revelers are immediately thrown off the premises. He said Diane Schuler took the five children in her car that day because everyone trusts her with kids She drives 40 miles an hour.. Jeanne Bastardi has written "The Taconic Tragedy A Son's Search for the Truth" based on the actual seven person homicide that took the lives of her husband's Father, Brother, and Friend. All photos appear on this tab and here you can update the sort order of photos on memorials you manage. There are so many bizzare theories and conjecture that seem to have been fabricated from midair by Daniel's lawyer and his felonious PI. Born September 14, 1944 in Rockville Centre, she was the daughter of the late Joseph and Eileen (Robinson) McKeough of Floral Park and Stony Creek. . I cannot fathom the pain the Bastardi family went through with losing a father and brother. The passing scene and what it's about viewed from the traditionalist politically incorrect Right. Having read both books, its obvious that the Bastardi and Hance families grieve in different ways. At the same time, her husband left in a gray pickup with their family dog. We would never knowingly allow our daughters to travel with someone who might jeopardize their safety. During that call, Hance spoke with one of his daughters, but he never indicated to us that she told him Schuler had been drinking or smoking, Chiumento said. In the end it changes nothing. ). Theres no way my husband would abandon me in order to go fishing or go home to conclude a family camping trip. Friends and family tell filmmaker Filmmaker Liz Garbus that in every aspect of her life, Diane Schuler strived for perfectionism. Minutes before the deadly crash, Hance's 8-year-old daughter, Emma, had called her mother to say, "Something's wrong with Aunt Diane.". Although her three brothers reconciled with their mother, Schuler refused, according to her husband. Not someone who was bad. Learn about how to make the most of a memorial. Are you sure that you want to delete this photo? "She never complained about it," one friend said on camera. The sponsor of a memorial may add an additional. I think she took one the last night of the camping trip, or maybe had been taking them, and the Ambien caused the confused fugue state she ended up in which could be the reason she drank from the vodka bottle. I think what was really going on was that they were so much in grief and were just not able to come forward. The HBO documentary There's Something Wrong with Aunt Diane attempted to give us insight as to what motivated Diane Schuler's unthinkable actions on July 26th 2009. Please enter your email address and we will send you an email with a reset password code. Immediately after the accident, people involved begin to act very oddly. News of Schulers alcohol and drug abuse is a crushing blow, said her family, including her brother, Warren Hance, and his wife, Jackie, whose three young daughters died in the crash. I read this strictly to get more info on this tragic case. But there is a small possibility that he wasnt aware of his wifes drinking, since some functioning alcoholics are very good at hiding their drinking. ", Dr. Carol Bernstein, associate professor of psychiatry at New York University School of Medicine, said, "the reality is anybody can snap. An email has been sent to the person who requested the photo informing them that you have fulfilled their request, There is an open photo request for this memorial. Five young children were in the car as well: her son, her daughter and three nieces. Schuler's son, Bryan, who suffered a severe head injury that left him with ocular nerve palsy, has said he has no memory of the accident. ", It was Schuler herself who had appeared to have super-human powers. Life Story Memory Board Duane H. Schuler They are two of the greatest people the world will ever have known. Eileen was in town with close friends for the Worlds Largest Garage Sale. Ladies Home JournalA page from the . "We are awaiting autopsy reports and toxicology reports.". All photos uploaded successfully, click on the Done button to see the photos in the gallery. memorial page for Diane E. Hance Schuler (13 Nov 1972-26 Jul 2009), Find a Grave Memorial ID 240061915, citing Cemetery of the Holy Rood, Westbury . Family members linked to this person will appear here. Police said at least six separate witnesses called 911 to report a van driving the wrong way. Daniel Schuler has maintained a round-the-clock vigil at Bryans bedside since the crash. Diane's medical records chronicle a woman with pain issues and insomnia. Schuler's neighbor and friend, Lisa Acosta, 42, said the family likes the outdoors and went camping almost every weekend in upstate Monticello. Jeanne Bastardi has written "The Taconic Tragedy A Son's Search for the Truth" based on the actual seven person homicide that took the lives of her husband's Father, Brother, and dearFriend. Year should not be greater than current year. Continuing with this request will add an alert to the cemetery page and any new volunteers will have the opportunity to fulfill your request. It's too bad no one has written a detailed account of this accident which to this day remains somewhat of a mystery as to how and why it happened. always there for me. I would drive 20 miles to work most days with a blood alcohol level similar to that found in Mrs. Schulers body. Are you sure that you want to delete this memorial? Just wishing it was not true does not change anything. Box 20795 Floral Park, NY 11002 or at www.hancefamilyfoundation.org. ", 24/7 coverage of breaking news and live events. They were very friendly. Torrington, CT and Stony Creek: At 9:30am on July 26, 2009, Diane Schuler loaded up her two children (ages five and two) along with her brother's, Warren Hance, three daughters (ages eight, seven, and five) into her brother's red 2003 Ford Windstar and left the Hunter Lake Campground to start the journey to West Babylon, New York. That makes it even more tragic.. Friends and family held a prayer service on Monday night at Our Lady of Victory church in Floral Park, L.I., where sobbing parishioners passed around tissue boxes and leaned on each other for support. The end of the book reveals Mike Bastardi's own theory about how Diane Schuler came to be driving drunk and stoned at 85 mph in the wrong direction. On that bright sunny day 10 years ago, families were shattered in a fiery crash that killed . "People always ask how I feel about Diane," Hance told the magazine. There is no greater pain than having lost my father and brother from the senseless act of a drunk driver.

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